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Hi there,

Happy Monday!

Here’s your weekly dose of The Monday 3: a quote, an insight, and an action I’m taking.

With love,

Toby

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A quote I’m pondering

My mother would always say ‘The world doesn’t need another album.’ And I would say, ‘Yeah, you’re right, the world doesn’t need it. But I do. I’m not doing it for out there’ (she placed a hand over her heart) ‘I’m doing it for in here.’

Suzanne Ciani – Grammy nominee musician, sound designer, composer and record label executive

An insight

We don’t need to absorb others’ emotions, or try to solve them.

Instead, we can learn to hold the space for them.

Simply by listening and creating the container where they can feel heard can be enough.

An action I’m taking

When public speaking I use my values as my opening lines.

Gratitude becomes “Thank you for x.”

Love becomes “I love sharing this…”

Exploration becomes “We’re going to be exploring…”

And so on.

This anchors me in the present and in how I want to show up independent of how I’m feeling – which is always nervous.

Is there one of these that really stood out for you? I’d love to hear your thoughts or suggestions, whether that’s a favourite quote or something else.

I hope you have a great week ahead.

With love,

Toby

PS: Want to take this further?

I work with CEOs and their teams to get clarity, align values, and drive performance through periods of intense growth and change.

If that’s you or someone you know, email me: tj@tobyajenkins.com.

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