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The Monday 3: Play to win or play not to lose?; Vehicle for developing humans; 478

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Happy Monday!

Here is your weekly dose of The Monday 3: a quote, an insight and an action I’m taking.

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A quote I’m pondering

An interviewer asked Kobe Bryant (one of the greatest basketball players of all time):

There are two types of players – those who play to win and those who play not to lose. Which are you?

Kobe responded:

I’m neither. I play to figure something out. I play to learn.

An insight from conversation

Speaking to an Olympic coach last night, we were discussing the differences between little-c coaching and big-C Coaching.

Little-c coaching focusses on development of technical aspects of skills.

Big-C coaching focusses on the development of the person.

Fascination lies in combining the two and seeing sport (or indeed any other discipline) as a vehicle for developing humans.

An action I’m taking

I’m using Dr Andrew Weil’s 4-7-8 breath for a single cycle in transitions in my day – before meetings, stepping back into home, etc. Breathe in for a 4 count, hold for 7 and out for 8. It’s helping me get present for what’s in front of me right now.

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Is there one of these that really stood out for you? I’d love to hear your thoughts or suggestions too.

I hope you have a great week ahead.

With love,

Toby

Performance Coach, Speaker and Author

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